I don't understand your logic, it seems like victim blaming. Using the internet and pointing out that targeted advertising has a negative effect on society is not "having it both ways".
Also, HN is by definition algorithmic content and social media, in your mind what do you think it is?
You are not a "victim" for using or purchasing something which is completely unnecessary. Or if that's the case, then you have no agency and have to be medicinally declared unfit to govern yourself and be appointed a legal guardian to control your affairs.
Also, HN is by definition algorithmic content and social media, in your mind what do you think it is?