The relevant difference here is that these companies have actual security standards on the level that you would only find in the FAA or similar organisations were lives are in danger. For every incident in Google cloud for example, they don't just apologise, but they state exactly what happened and how they responded (down to the minute) and you can read up exactly how they plan to prevent this from happening again: https://status.cloud.google.com/incidents/ow5i3PPK96RduMcb1S...

This is what incident handling by a trustworthy provider looks like.