It is possible for your brain to parse information from people you don't have a personal connection with as what the message is and skip the how. Not sure why people get lit up by the how; who cares about that from people you don't give a toss about? These days you have AI for it; Claude can give you a lovely summary of the facts without the how. My brain does that automatically since I was in high school. Comments from anyone but close friends or close relatives cannot make me 'unhappy', no matter what they are.