I suggest to not care about this stuff so much. Can you imagine what sorts of people take part in your daily life, preparing your food, adjusting legislation, providing services like driving the bus, serving your request as a clerk, ringing up your items in a shop, designing and creating your clothes, and so on? We are surrounded with all sorts, and being very selective with a very few makes no difference. If you're interested in the system, I suggest to give it a whirl, your life will be richer with the experience.