> My friends and I decided to stop going to large events. How sad is that?
Up to your risk tolerance. I would recommend that if the gun risk from large events is too much for you that you might also want to refrain from driving.
In the same vein, I was discussing police responses to mass shootings on Twitter, and was quite surprised to find Wikipedia took me to a disambiguation page when looking up “[random small town] shooting”: https://twitter.com/samziz/status/1544460684829904896
My friends and I decided to stop going to large events. How sad is that?