> Life isn't fair. We're all born into different means and of course more money allows for more optionality. The "poor kids" have to work harder to save up their money to get their chance, but that's completely possible
That's making the mistake of equating the way things are with the way they should be.
While there's a lot of variations in opportunity from ability that should be respected, I don't think "being born well off" deserves the same kind of respect.
What's the mistake? What's the way things should be exactly?
Nature and humanity will always have inequality. Chaos and entropy are normal and inevitable. Even if you stop the world and reset everyone today to the same exact situation, things will change the moment you let them go. So what is this utopian ideal you think is possible?
I'm also assuming you'll be leaving your children with nothing so that they won't get any unfair advantages right or respect right?
That's making the mistake of equating the way things are with the way they should be.
While there's a lot of variations in opportunity from ability that should be respected, I don't think "being born well off" deserves the same kind of respect.