Swap is missing in k8s. That's a difference from a VM.

Otherwise the operator concept makes it even easier. Zalando operator for PostgreSQL takes care of ha and backup

It's still alpha, but it's there https://kubernetes.io/docs/concepts/architecture/nodes/#swap...

And how is Disney related to gitlab?!

I mean it as a response that I feel the macroeconomic environment for companies are amazing and not tough.

It's a similar example of a company justifying layoffs with "difficult macroeconomic conditions" which actually doing very well. (Well I don't know if Gitlab are doing well but there are plenty of more examples like Disney.)

It's hard to suggest things tbh because it's very individual.

I decided to buy and move to a farm we're I will renovate it myself and create an environment which is quite, green and lively.

I also hope that this will give me the balance and allows me to look outside in my future park while working and also being able to transition into life work balance which is worth it.

Then I will try to design a sustainable day to day schedule for enough time for outside and study time. The study time itself will than be containing all the things you mentioned like learning music or another language.